Practice the Emergency Before It's Real

Learn why athletes must rehearse setbacks and high-pressure moments before they happen to build an automatic, effective mental reset.

By Scott K. Wilder · Pressure and Resets

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Practice the Emergency Before It's Real By Scott K. Wilder · July 2026

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Pilots don't wait for an engine failure to decide how they'll respond. Surgeons don't improvise a crisis protocol in the operating room. They rehearse the hard moment long before it happens. Most athletes never do. Here's a simple routine that changes that. ■

3 Key Takeaways

• Handling pressure isn't fixed. It's a skill athletes can strengthen through repeated exposure, preparation, and recovery practice — the same way pilots and surgeons train for the moments that matter most.
• Most mental preparation only rehearses success. The far more useful version rehearses the setback too — because in real competition, something usually goes wrong before it goes right.
• A short routine — Success. Setback. Reset. — run before practice, builds a response that's already familiar by the time the real moment shows up.

A pilot does not wait for an engine failure to decide how to respond.

A surgeon does not improvise a crisis protocol in the operating room.

They rehearse the difficult moment before it happens — until the response becomes familiar.

Yet many athletes enter the biggest moments in their sport without ever practicing what pressure will feel like, what they'll do when something goes wrong, or how they'll reset. They hope they'll figure it out in real time.

That's backwards. And it's fixable.

In my last article, I wrote about how the same penalty kick can produce two completely different outcomes depending on how an athlete reads the moment. That research — professional players converting 93% of kicks that would win the game, and just 44% of kicks where a miss meant elimination — shows what avoidance looks like under pressure. The obvious next question is: how do athletes train the response they actually want?

Here's where it starts. Handling pressure isn't fixed. It's a skill athletes can strengthen through repeated exposure, preparation, and recovery practice.

Most mental preparation only goes halfway. Athletes are taught to visualize their sport going well — the clean swing, the perfect serve, the shot falling through the net. That helps. But it only prepares

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them for one version of competition. Real games also include bad bounces, missed calls, and moments when the body doesn't respond the way it's supposed to.

The fix is a three-part rehearsal, and it's simple enough to name:

SUCCESS

See the play going exactly right.

SETBACK

See the mistake, the bad bounce, the moment that doesn’t go your way.

RESET

See and feel yourself recovering — the breath, the body language, the return to the next task.

An athlete who has rehearsed the hard moment is less likely to be surprised by it. The mistake feels familiar — and so does the reset.

Here's how to actually build this into a routine, not just a one-time exercise.

Pick one high-pressure moment in your sport — the match-point serve, the two-strike at-bat, the penalty kick. Before practice starts, run it in your head exactly twice: once with everything going right, once with everything going wrong, immediately followed by your reset. Two minutes. Every practice. It costs almost nothing, and it's one of the biggest gaps between athletes who've genuinely rehearsed pressure and athletes who are just hoping they handle it when it comes.

There's one more piece, and it happens in the moment itself, not before it. Under pressure, an athlete's internal story often defaults to a fear-based question: "What if I mess this up?" That question aims the mind at the miss, and the body follows.

Some athletes do better naming the moment differently instead: "This is my chance." Others respond better to something simpler — "Next pitch." "Trust it." "Compete." The exact words matter less than what they do: they shift attention from avoiding failure to executing the next action.

What Athletes Should Do Next

Pick your one pressure moment this week — the one that gets you most nervous in your sport. Before practice, run Success. Setback. Reset. Do this on the days nothing is on the line, so it's already familiar by the time something is.

Pressure doesn't give athletes time to invent a response. They fall back on whatever they've practiced.

So don't rehearse only the perfect play. Rehearse the setback, the reset, and the return to the next moment — until all three feel like the same skill.

One more piece worth knowing: Success. Setback. Reset. is what you rehearse before the game, on your own time, so the moment is familiar when it arrives. ARC — Acknowledge, Release,

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Concentrate — is what you run live, in real time, the instant an actual mistake happens on the field. One prepares the response. The other executes it. Train both, and pressure has nowhere left to surprise you.

About the Author

Scott K. Wilder is the founder of Game Ready Mindset, a mental readiness program and platform for high school and collegiate athletic programs in baseball, soccer, softball, and volleyball. He holds a Masters from the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology (now Sofia University) and a Masters in International Studies and Conflict Resolution from Johns Hopkins, with coaching credentials from Georgetown University, Brian Cain, and the National Federation of High Schools, and soon from FC Barcelona. He is the author of Millennial Leaders and the forthcoming Compete in Any Weather.

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Related: this is the practical follow-up to "The Same Penalty Kick, Taken by Two Different Minds," which covers the research behind what pressure does. This one covers how to train for it.

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